The meeting began with Eric standing in the aisle for the first 10 or 15 minutes arms folded, scowling, and "Umph"ing because he wanted his Dad who was on the stand. When he started kicking the bench and then hit the guy in front of us, I finally let him wander up there. That was okay until the first speaker stepped down and Eric decided he wanted to stand on the podium stool. Thus began wrestling match#1 between Dad and Eric. Unable to calm him down, Brian brought Eric down to me. I took him to the hall. We returned 2 more times to try and last the meeting out. (Thank goodness for a kind friend who took care of Andrew during the fiasco.)
With only a few remaining minutes of the meeting Andrew was laying in the aisle trying to crawl up to the stand. I was hanging on to his leg. So with only the song and prayer left, I let Andrew go up to sit on Brian's lap. But Andrew decided he'd rather stand on the stool next to the podium and grin at everyone. Brian tried to hold him. I went up to the stand to help and tried to sit the last 3 minutes out. But I lost the fight again, carrying Andrew out of the chapel.
After the meeting more than one person came up to tell me what a great job I'm doing. I even got a couple of hugs. It did make me feel better to know that there were some very understanding people watching the whole mess. But then while I drove home I thought "Must have really been bad."
I feel for you Carol! Is Brian in the bishopric? You are doing a great job :).
ReplyDeleteIf it makes you feel any better I never even noticed. I guess my kids were being crazy too.
ReplyDelete...you are doing a great job.
ReplyDeleteI remember one Sunday Madeline (a baby) was fussy and Annalise (3 yo)started throwing a fit when the Sacrament was being passed. Geoff had a Stake calling for the first four years of Anna's life and therefor it was just me. Whilst men stood in the isles (married student ward) I walked past them with Maddie in the sling and Annalise playing dead weight and me dragging her with one hand. So embarrasing. You know it's bad when after Sacrament, the bishop comes up to you (we were close--I had just been released as the RS President) and asks if you are okay. Like something was wrong with ME! ...I think I probably had a "I'm going to beat this child" face on...
You are doing a good job. Afterall, you are still going to go to church this next Sunday and do it again, right?
You do great. My mom had 3 of us she was wrestling with whenever my dad was in Bishoprics. I don't know how you wonderful ladies do it!
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